Saturday, July 14, 2007

Blind Date - (dad's first entry on the blog)

I've never been on a blind date before, so last night I thought i'd take the plunge...

Strange experience really, though one i'm certain i will never forget.

We met in a well lit room so there was no chance for anything dodgy to go down.

I can't remember who was the first to speak. I think it was me... needless to say she probably didn't think much of whatever dribble came out of my mouth... some astonished gasp followed by "gosh, you're beautiful!" I don't think she was overly impressed with my shameless flattery, but she gave me a glance that assured me i'd at least get a second look in with her.
By the second sentence I was promising her things i'd often felt unable to commit to.

Like unconditional love for a lifetime.
That I would work my life to ensure she was happy, well fed, and clothed. I even promised to teach her everything i know, if she'd care to listen and learn.

I guess I just got a bit caught up in the moment. After all, it's not every day you get to meet the woman of your dreams.

Well at least the last 9 months dreams...

I know i'm already married and all, but from now on it seems i'm a two woman man... the beauty of this situation of course is that Mez is totally sweet with it. We three make quite a harmonious family really.

This mystery woman then has even taken my name for her own, and moved in with us. I'm sure you're as keen as I am to welcome Miss Abbey Elise Monastra to the world and this extraordinary privelege we call life (in the better moments).

She's kinda short,

Kinda cute (in a squashed newborn kinda way!)

Kinda bald (Like her great Grandad (Monastra) but without the side bits), Though she has dad's widow's peak hairline...

Kinda Smelly (in a good way after a bath, in a bad way after... you know)

She has a mind, heart and beautiful clean soul all of her own, God saw her and was pleased, I had to agree, and i'm sure you will too... (and if you don't - keep the opinion to yourself, back in the day I was pretty good at constructing flawless arguments - don't make me do the one-eyed parent thing!)



We're home now after a great first date, and looking forward to many many more...


3 Comments:

Blogger Sherrin said...

Welcome to the God's wonderful World little Abbey Elise. God has brought you into a loving, awesome family, may He bless you all.
We are so happy for your safe arrival, just a little bit jealous of Bex - she gets cuddles! Oh well, I'll just ask her to give you one from me. Be good for mum, she's new at this game, I'm sure she'll get the hang of being a mum pretty quick tho'. Mez & Ryan congratulations on producing a beautiful little girl, she is gorgeous. Lots of love,

9:19 PM  
Blogger basketcase said...

Well hello beautiful. About time you showed up and let the world see you. Be kind to your poor Mum and Dad who have been waiting so patiently for you. Congrats Mez and Ryan. She is totally gorgeous (and I CAN say that without bias...) Wish I could be there to meet her. Bring her home to NZ soon! Love and Blessings (and as much sleep as you can get)
Amelia

9:46 PM  
Blogger shorty said...

Hooray!! Congratulations Monastras!! I've been doing little celebration dances round my living room 'cause I'm so excited for you. Lots of love and cuddles from Team Short, can't wait to meet the little princess one day :) God bless ya!!!

1:34 AM  

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